Many of you know that I coach a color guard (you know, the girls who spin the flags in a marching band). Two days before the Raleigh Christmas Parade a young color guard member was about to give up her potential position of marching where the camera would capture her performing for 1/2 million viewers to see. She wasn't sure she would smile and she didn't want to let down the guard. She came to me and said - "I → Read more